Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Swimming is only for the Rich.....in Haiti




I love to read, usually it is just reading for enjoyment, I am one of those people who is always reading a book or two or three at a time. My worst problem is that I usually forget what I have read shortly after reading a book so I really don't read books that would make me smarter or books where I actually might learn something. BUT every once in a while I stumble across a book that really changes my perspective and alters my thinking. I am reading such a book now! "Haiti, From Revolution To The Kidnapping of a President"

In this book there is a part where the former President of Haiti Jean-Bertrand Aristide is talking about how every Friday they invite children from "slum" areas of Haiti to their home to come and swim they had a bus that would pick up the children who wanted to swim, and I quote;
"This experience, which may appear at first as merely symbolic, has tremendous ramifications. In a country where only twenty percent of the population have access to clean drinking water, swimming pools are exclusively for the rich. There is not a single public swimming pool in Haiti. The pool itself is a symbol of the elite.
We know the kids need food, we know they need school, but we cannot give all of them these things in a day. So while we are working to change society, we can give them a day in a swimming pool. We say no child is so poor she does not deserve to swim in a pool. And if you imagine this has no impact on the society, think again."

This brought tears to my eyes, we just booked our next trip to Haiti and while I can't change the world, I can't change a country, I can't even bring my kids home yet, I can let them swim and let them feel rich if only for a week. This small thing that we provide for our children while we are in Haiti gives them hope of a better day, where little things that we take for granted will become a reality for them, they are getting a small taste of their new life one week at a time.

Monday, March 30, 2009

"Pennies by the Inch"

When I was a little girl our church was raising money to help build the Primary Children's Hospital in Salt Lake City. The goal was to collect pennies for how tall each person was I was pretty tall so that was a "tall" order. Well as I have been thinking of ways to raise money for the orphanage this idea popped into my head and why didn't I do a "Pennies by the Inch" fund raiser at our local elementary? After getting approval from the "boss" we started our "pennies by the inch" just 2 weeks ago , that is 10 school days! As of today we have raised over $460.00! We are collecting pennies and other change until June 1st. My goal was to raise enough money for a generator for the orphanage and we should easily meet that goal and more!

I keep thinking this will peak out and the kids will loose interest and we have had a couple of slow days, but there are teachers that are on board supporting this project, one of the teachers had her class make a wall poster tracking how much is being raised by moving a school bus down the road for every inch taking that bus from our school to the orphanage in Haiti! One of the 1st grade teachers is keeping track of how much her class is raising and as of Friday her class has contributed $57.00. This is great every one can make a difference and even the littlest bit, every penny does count!




Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Oh I love to Get Updates!


I received updates on the girls today!! They look so good! I love Avrie's cute lips and the slight dimple in her chin, her skin has a healthy glow and she looks healthy that is great news!! Now for Destina! What a difference from the picture I posted the other day. I love that she is still wearing the necklace that Katie made for her, she is wearing a dress that I gave her in October and she still has her Barbie and long beads, I even like the way they have her hair braided it looks very cute on her! She is doing good and learning more English.
I had a dream about her last night that we were home and I was showing her all the fun things we have for her to do in the back yard there was a pool, a swing set, a trampoline, a sand box everything that any kid would love to have and I was showing her her room and all of her things it was a great dream. Too bad my yard has none of those kid entertaining objects we only have grass!

Monday, March 23, 2009

Baby Pictures!

This past week I have been in charge of collecting baby pictures for all the 5th grade kids to include them in the 5th grade yearbook. It has been fun to see pictures of the kids some look just the same others are different but it has been a fun project to work on. It also got me thinking about when Destina is in 5th grade and they ask for a baby picture I wont have one to give, this makes me sad. So much of her childhood has been wasted away living in an orphanage with 50 other kids waiting for a home. She never had someone read bedtime stories to her or a mom to bake cookies with... oh the list is long on all that she has missed, we will have a lot of catching up to do! This is the earliest picture I have of Destina, it was taken in September of 07 she just turned 4 there is a lifetime of sadness in those eyes a longing look that wonders if anyone will pick her to be their daughter, she wants a family but doesn't even really know what a family is all she knows, at this point, is life in an orphanage!

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Better Than a Pair of Mickey Ears!

Katie returned home on Monday from spending 5 days at Walt Disney World in Florida at a cheer competition with her cheer team. She had a great time, and while most kids collected tee-shirts and other trinkets Katie was able to bring home a ...





black eye courtesy of someone's elbow!


Monday, March 16, 2009

Uncle Brent!






Everyone needs an uncle Brent in their life! All the kids run up to uncle Brent taunting and teasing him and use him as their personal jungle gym. He is great to get right in the mix with these kids and taunt and tease them right back, they love it! Thanks uncle Brent for making life at the hotel so much more fun and entertaining!

Friday, March 13, 2009

I Love You Too!

I love the lip gloss, we will have to remember that less is more in the future! I can't wait until I can hear these words everyday! The kids picked up English so fast they have only had a teacher for 12 weeks at this point. I'm sure in June they will be talking English non stop!


Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Tagged


This is for you Mimi I usually don't like to do these tag things but I opened my 6th folder and found the 6th picture and this is it so I guess I will post it!
This is me and my Cheer mom friends eating at the Hard Rock Cafe in Orlando FL, 2 years ago! We are all still friends and need to all hang out again soon guys! Too bad we all are not going to FL this year!
Ang, I am sorry you are being a dork in this picture!

Monday, March 2, 2009

Difference

It's late and I can't sleep and have had some thoughts running through my head for a while now and maybe if I put a voice to them I can sleep!
When Ellie died last May someone said to me, "well I guess it is like having a miscarriage right?" At the time I didn't quite know what to say, I have never had a miscarriage so I'm not sure what that feels like. I can imagine the sense of lose that is felt, but I have hard time believing that they are close to the same. I don't want to discount the tragedy of a miscarriage that is not what this post is about but just the differences. There is also a difference between the loss of a child that has been living in your home and one that is living 3000 miles away.
When we lost Ellie and Gracie we lost 2 living beings that came to this earth and endured so much pain, sorrow and loss in their short lives. I lost the dream of raising those little girls, knowing each one individually and knowing their personalities and knowing what we were going to be missing out on, knowing the greatness of their short lives was not in vain. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of them and wish that they were still here on the path to our home, they are on my mind as I drift off to sleep each night.
I have a dear friend that lost a family member today! A little 11 month old baby girl, also named Gracie, that has been struggling for 11 months to live, she was born with a fatal heart condition. Her parents have diligently been by her side through surgeries and close calls, putting their life on hold to give their all to their baby girl. She has been fighting for her life everyday. They had to take her off of life support today, and say good bye, I can't imagine how hard that would be, to fight so hard and in the end to let her go! My heart aches for them!
We all have trials in this life some are harder than others, some trials differ by degrees, but in the end it is so hard to say good bye to little babies, to watch them suffer and then go back to that Heavenly home. Our prayers are with this family tonight for the peace and comfort to endure this trial, their little baby will always be in their hearts. I am sure not a day will go by without them thinking about her and she will be their last thought as they drift off to sleep each night! Good night Gracie Girl!

Avrie Again



This video is mostly all of Avrie, really not too exciting but she is so cute! Desitna is complaining because Madie's video recorder doesn't have batteries and she cannot get it to turn on and she is not happy about that!